So keen to have sex with a transsexual woman that I no longer fancy my wife

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DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE a very strong fetish for transsexual women. I have never been with one but I would love to.

I’m a man of 37 and my partner is 35. We’ve been together for eight years.

 I don't want sex with my wife anymore as I just want to sleep with a transsexual woman

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I don’t want sex with my wife anymore as I just want to sleep with a transsexual woman

I love her dearly but my fetish is so bad that I have stopped wanting to have sex with her.

I know she thinks that I’m going off her but nothing could be further from the truth. She would be really upset if I told her about this fetish and I’ve been looking at transsexual escorts.

I thought it would just be a phase and I’d forget about it but it has been going on for years.

I am 100 per cent straight and I don’t want to feel this way but I don’t know what to do.

DEIDRE SAYS: Satisfying an obsession doesn’t make it go away. It’s more likely to make it stronger.

Your partner might be relieved to know about your fetish but it would probably shake her faith in your relationship.

My e-leaflet Fetish Worry? explains what lies behind fetishes and sources of help.

If you want to keep your partner, you’ll probably need to look for other ways to spice up your sex life.


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